Meet the Guys: Nick H

Why are you looking for love? Im not looking for love on this show. Im entering the show with an open heart. Im here to meet some cool people, and have an amazing experience, but Im not going to force something that isnt there. My strategy is to get to know all of the girls and develop a bond with each of them. Whether that bond is best suited for friendship or romance, only time will tell.

What have you learned from past relationships that you will keep in mind when looking for love on this show? Honesty and trust are the most important part of any relationship. Without that foundation, anything that grows is doomed to fail. I am looking for a girl I can trust first and foremost.

What kind of girl are you looking for? I look for many qualities in a girl. Of course you have to start with the obvious positive personality traits that most consider an acceptable complete answer to this question. Smart, funny, beautiful, and a good person. All of those are very important to me, but there are a lot of girls out there with that mix of positive characteristics. What I really look for is something significantly deeper than those easily discernible qualities. How does that particular person mesh with you? Do they make you want to be a better person? Does the sun rise and set on their smile? Are you willing to give up every other girl in the world because this one girl is all you'll ever need? Those are the things that I look for. Until you find those things in another person I dont see a point in committing yourself to an exclusive relationship with anyone.

What does it take to date a Bad Girl? Dating a bad girl is the emotional equivalent of riding a poorly maintained roller coaster, with no seat belt, in a lightning storm. If that doesnt sound like your idea of fun, you probably dont have what it takes.

What are you most attracted to on a girl? Why? Im not attracted to any particular body part. I believe true beauty is achieved through synergy. Its not preferable for a girls eyes, lips, or hips to outweigh the entirety of her appearance.

Describe your ideal first date. The point of a first date is to get to know the other person. Any atmosphere that facilitates this process is ideal. This being said, conventional romantic dates are overrated and extremely overdone. Dinner and drinks in a quite restaurant is a boring and unmemorable choice. Making an impression is key. Taking a girl to something shes never seen or experienced is what ive found works best. Skydiving is a perfect example of this. Excitement and suspense are major turn ons for anyone and the power to invoke those emotions through an activity choice is an ace up your sleeve indeed.

How do you determine the difference between a hookup and a girlfriend? A hookup is another one of the many girls that you meet out at the bars during the wee hours of the morning. You then proceed to spout off some pre-scripted collection of verbal vomit that has worked before and will work again. A cab ride is taken to one of your places and the next morning you wake up to the realization that you have nothing in common with them accept the fact that last night you were both drunk. You have no desire to linger, because this isnt where you want to be. This isnt the person you see kissing your kids forehead before they go to sleep at night. This person is not and never will be your home. See What kind of girl are you looking for? for what makes a girl girlfriend material. If she isnt all of that and more then its just not worth it.