“Judging by the title of my YouTube video I can already feel some judge-y eyes coming through the computer screen,” says Bad Girls Club alumna Gabi Victor. Her video is a whopping 47 minutes of raw, personal details telling the entire story of her relationship as a side chick to her baby daddy, who’s name is Victor, which means that her name could have been Gabi Victor Victor if the two had married.
But marriage wasn’t in the cards. In fact, Victor’s response to Gabi calling him in tears to let him know that she was pregnant was appalling. “Well, I’m in love. You need to get an abortion,” he said. “I’m not even telling her I f*cked with you.”
Gabby decided to have the baby anyway, and the two ended up off and on during the first year after Marcellus, her baby, was born. While the relationship didn’t work out, Gabi says she wouldn’t change a thing. “If I could go back in time and do it again I would because I literally couldn’t picture a second without Marcellus,” she says.
Listen to Gabi's story. It's full of advice to young women.